Each Church Letter Writing Tip builds off an acrostic based on the words “Church Letters”. At the bottom of each tip is a free sample church letter which may be used within your own church communications. This letter may not be posted on any competitive website.
Church Letter Writing Tip 9
Our ninth lesson in “13 Tips For Church Letter Writing Success” will build off the letter “T” in our Church Letters acrostic.
So far, we have looked at the following: C – Be Clear H – Be Hopeful U – Be Understanding R – Be Responsive C – Be Consistent H – Be Helpful
L – Be “Letter-Ready” E – Be Evangelistic
Today, we will take a look at:
T – Be Tactful
While it is important to know the need, it is even more important to respond to the need in a way the person will feel you are being truthful and sympathetic with concern for their feelings. Even in the case of discipline (when a face to face meeting may be more appropriate), the person will sense that you are loving them.
Love and a desire to restore and provide hope should be at the basis of all we do, and when it is tactfulness will be developed as a result of that love. Proverbs 25:11 “A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”
There is a world of difference between being “tacky” versus being “tactful”! Tactfulness shares the truth in love, yet the person on the receiving end will “hear” your love whether they are written or spoken.
Having tactfulness does not always mean that everything will go smoothly either, but at least we are at least doing our best to share the love of God in word and deed.